Monday, 3 February 2014

FRIENDSHIP VS. RELATIONSHIP

Friendship is a relation between friend and friend without any feeling like each other, while Relationship is also a kind of friendship but relationship is usually between a boy and a girl, and they both have feeling each other. Relationship is now called as 'dating'. These days, most of teenagers are dating, and usually the boy
'shoot' the girl at first, than if the girl accept the boy, so it means that they got on date. But if the girl ignored the boy, so they're not dating.

Friendship is more to kindness, motivate each other, helping each other without asking for vengeance. Friendship is usually last longer than relationship. If in friendship usually after they're fighting or having problems each other, not a long time after that, they directly asking for forgiveness each other. I've once saw a writer wrote this quote: "Hold a true friend and don't let go for a true friend comes once in a lifetime." That's called by Friendship. They maintain their relation as a friend as much as possible, as long as possible.
....................WHILE.................
Relationship is more to feelings between a boy and a girl, love, and off course dating. Relationship is a little bit different from friendship. The differences are if relationship is not last longer, they usually fight because of a love problem. If they both (the boy and the girl) doesn't forgive each other and keep having problems, they usually brake their relationship. Sometimes, someone said that  there's the season where people doesn't date each other.. do you know when is the season?? Guess what, maybe you guys just realized or maybe not even knew that tragedy... But one of the writer in Indonesia which is Raditya Dika, who wrotes Indonesian novel, once said it. So just go directly to the point ok.. The season is when, teenagers are having exams, tests, homework, and also when teenagers are having any other problems with other people... :) 

So there you go! Finally you guys can distinguish the meaning of FRIENDSHIP and RELATIONSHIP :) Hope you guys also can know the effects of doing those such thing! :) Bye guys! Wait for my next article !!

What is the true 'FRIENDSHIP'?

"Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them but you know they're always there."    
"Friendship are hard to find, difficult to leave and impossible to forget."

      
Have you ever heard that quotes? Well, I'm not quite sure who made it, but I've seen that long time ago... So do you know what is the meaning of "FRIENDSHIP"? Friendship is a blessing and a friend is a channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends can cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends can challenge us when we allow ourselves to get beyond our reasonable boundaries. 

Some people say that it's important to have a friendship.. Well maybe it's because friends are the 2nd place of us to share our stories, they also can motivate us when we're ready to give in, they're the one that always help us whenever we are far from our parents and teachers, they can provide us when life falls apart, they are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily. 

So from now please take care of your good friends who always accompany you whenever your parents and teachers are not beside you, please appreciate them like how they appreciate you, love them like how they love you, keep them safe from anything dangerous like when they're keeping you safe from any dangerous, and always be there for them whenever they also need help. Help each other, love each other, take care each other... So that is what we called as a TRUE FRIENDSHIP... :) I wish all of you can make your own friendship from now on :) 

True Love, 
Your Friend :)